PREMATURE EJACULATION PROBLEMS
1. This is persistent or recurrent rapid ejaculation upon minimal sexual stimulation before, during or shortly after penetration, and before the person desires it.
2. This problem often causes significant distress to the sufferer and a deterioration in relationships.
Fortunately, premature ejaculation is one of the most well-studied and well-treated of all sexual difficulties. On average, 90% of these problems are curable in 14 weeks. Therefore, the efficacy rate of treatment is high.
Most people who suffer from premature ejaculation do not have an organic or medical problem, nor do they have serious psychological problems. It is usually caused by poor learning and anxiety problems.
Those they have acquired is a bad apprenticeship, they have not learned to discriminate or attend to the sensations prior to ejaculation, and to control high levels of arousal. They reach orgasm quickly and involuntarily, accompanied by deep dissatisfaction.
Ejaculating prematurely does not mean being sexually inept, because many men stimulate their partner well, manually or orally, and are therefore able to give intense sexual pleasure to their partner. The main difficulties usually occur during penetration.
People with anxiety problems feel a strong demand for sexual performance. They live their sexuality in a tense and not very relaxed way, which deprives them and their partner of sexual satisfaction. They are often tense and try to hold on, which ends up being worse. Anxiety is the worst lover one can take to bed.
Together with sexual difficulties, feelings of shame and guilt, and lack of personal worth are often accompanied by feelings of shame and guilt, which worsen the problem and lead the person to avoid talking about it and to withdraw into themselves. This is the main reason why people who suffer from this problem often take so long to go to therapy.
In addition to the discomfort it causes in the person who suffers from it, it is also often a source of conflict in the couple and deterioration of the relationship. However, the attitude of the partner is important in solving the problem. Demanding and demanding partners do not help to solve the problem, but end up making it worse. Those who are more understanding and try to help and appease the importance of the problem tend to cooperate better. Communication is essential in a couple, especially in this very intimate area.