{"id":457,"date":"2022-05-18T10:26:01","date_gmt":"2022-05-18T09:26:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.trecpsicologia.com\/?page_id=457"},"modified":"2026-09-30T12:27:18","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T11:27:18","slug":"infidelidad","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/trecpsicologia.com\/ca\/infidelidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Infidelitat"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">PROBLEMES D&#039;INFIDELITAT<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background\" style=\"background-color:#a0d2c3;color:#a0d2c3\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Infidelitat o adulteri?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Segons el Diccionari de la Llengua Espanyola (Espasa-Calpe, 2005) la paraula Infidelitat vol dir \u201cfalta de lleialtat\u201d, \u00e9s a dir, \u201cfalta de noblesa, confian\u00e7a, franquesa, honestedat\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La infidelitat es relaciona amb la tra\u00efci\u00f3, falsedat, engany, ingratitud o vilesa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En canvi, la paraula Adulteri vol dir \u201crelaci\u00f3 sexual d&#039;una persona casada amb una altra que no en sigui el c\u00f2njuge\u201d i es relaciona amb la \u201cmanca de legitimitat\u201d, \u00e9s a dir, amb la conformitat i adequaci\u00f3 a la llei establerta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tot i que totes dues es fan servir indistintament, no volen dir el mateix. Mentre que la infidelitat fa refer\u00e8ncia a una q\u00fcesti\u00f3 de lleialtat, confian\u00e7a, l&#039;adulteri es refereix m\u00e9s a una q\u00fcesti\u00f3 legal, de llei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Qu\u00e8 \u00e9s la Infidelitat?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Com hem dit anteriorment, la infidelitat fa refer\u00e8ncia a una manca de lleialtat, noblesa, confian\u00e7a, franquesa i honestedat. \u00c9s la ruptura del pacte afectiu i sexual que t\u00e9 amb la parella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Per tant, la infidelitat no necess\u00e0riament ha de referir-se al pla sexual sin\u00f3 que un pot sentir-se tra\u00eft pel treball del seu c\u00f2njuge, les seves aficions o els seus amics. No obstant aix\u00f2, nosaltres ens centrarem en la infidelitat sexual<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En q\u00fcesti\u00f3, la infidelitat \u00e9s la manca d&#039;honestedat a la parella. \u00c9s el sentiment de tra\u00efci\u00f3 d&#039;un pacte o comprom\u00eds que pot fer trencar la relaci\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Els pactes a la parella<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Els pactes fan refer\u00e8ncia als contractes establerts per les parelles i que han d&#039;estar fets amb reflexi\u00f3, flexibilitat i lliure albir de tots dos i no per tradici\u00f3 imposada. Estan per servir-nos i no per convertir-nos en els seus serfs com diu Montserrat Calvo al seu llibre \u201cSexualitat Atl\u00e8tica o Erotisme\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Els pactes s&#039;han de basar respectant el dret de cadascun dels membres a tenir pensaments, desitjos, opinions i sentiments diferents dels nostres. B\u00e0sicament hi ha dos tipus de pactes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>a- Monog\u00e0mia o Polig\u00e0mia<br>La monog\u00e0mia es defineix com la relaci\u00f3 conjugal entre dues persones; i la polig\u00e0mia com la relaci\u00f3 conjugal entre diverses persones.<\/li><li>b- Exclusivitat sexual o varietat sexual<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A m\u00e9s de decidir entre relacions mon\u00f2games i pol\u00edgames, podeu triar entre l&#039;exclusivitat sexual o no. \u00c9s a dir, poder tenir relacions sexuals fora de la relaci\u00f3. A aquestes relacions se&#039;ls anomena obertes mentre que a les exclusives, tancades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Des d&#039;un punt de vista psicoemocional podr\u00edem dir que a l&#039;\u00e9sser hum\u00e0 hi ha un fort desig de crear un vincle \u00fanic i exclusiu amb algunes poques persones, i un altre desig antag\u00f2nic, que \u00e9s el de la curiositat i explorar la diversitat de la vida, tal com ens diu Alberoni al seu llibre \u201cSexe i Amor\u201d. El primer, ens impulsa a crear vincles duradors, el sentit de la possessi\u00f3 i la gelosia; el segon, a explorar, experimentar, tafanejar ia la promiscu\u00eftat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A l&#039;enamorament \u00e9s l&#039;\u00fanica etapa on convergeixen tots dos desitjos. Posteriorment, la relaci\u00f3 va canviant entre estar m\u00e9s units i cercar la varietat. En temporades predomina m\u00e9s un que altre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Posteriorment a l&#039;enamorament, els pactes a la parella poden determinar en quin grau i de quina manera satisfem el desig de varietat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Freq\u00fc\u00e8ncia de l&#039;Infidelitat<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La infidelitat sembla estar present molt freq\u00fcentment a les parelles. S&#039;aproxima que el 50% de les parelles ha tingut alguna relaci\u00f3 d&#039;infidelitat al llarg de la seva vida. La freq\u00fc\u00e8ncia \u00e9s semblant en ambd\u00f3s sexes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Causes de la infidelitat<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Els motius que ens poden portar a la infidelitat s\u00f3n b\u00e0sicament quatre:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Monotonia i avorriment a la parella oa la seva vida personal que porta la persona a la recerca de noves sensacions.<\/li><li>Insatisfacci\u00f3 amb la parella i es busquen \u201csolucions temporals\u201d que serveixen per tapar les mancances de la relaci\u00f3.<\/li><li>Una manera de venjar-se de la parella i fer-li mal.<\/li><li>Una manera de deixar la parella, buscant un substitut per fer el pas.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Qu\u00e8 fer per superar una infidelitat?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El primer que cal tenir en compte \u00e9s que cal temps per recuperar la confian\u00e7a en la parella, acceptar la situaci\u00f3 i prendre dist\u00e0ncia. En segon lloc, cal revisar els motius que han donat lloc a la conducta d&#039;infidelitat. En tercer lloc, cercar solucions i alternatives. I finalment, establir nous pactes, que permetin cr\u00e9ixer la parella des d&#039;una nova entesa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una infidelitat no ha de ser el motiu de destrucci\u00f3 d&#039;una parella, ja que ens pot aportar una nova dimensi\u00f3 a la parella fins ara encara no explorada.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PROBLEMAS DE INFIDELIDAD \u00bfInfidelidad o adulterio? Seg\u00fan el Diccionario de la Lengua Espa\u00f1ola (Espasa-Calpe, 2005) la palabra Infidelidad quiere decir \u201cfalta de lealtad\u201d, es decir, \u201cfalta de nobleza, confianza, franqueza, honestidad\u201d. La infidelidad se relaciona con la traici\u00f3n, falsedad, enga\u00f1o, ingratitud o vileza. En cambio, la palabra Adulterio quiere decir \u201crelaci\u00f3n sexual de una persona &#8230; <a title=\"Infidelitat\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/trecpsicologia.com\/ca\/infidelidad\/\" aria-label=\"M\u00e9s informaci\u00f3 sobre Infidelidad\">Read more<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-457","page","type-page","status-publish"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Infidelidad: terapia de pareja en Barcelona | TREC<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Terapia de pareja despu\u00e9s de una infidelidad en Barcelona. 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